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Why You Keep Attracting Narcissists and 7 Quick Ways to Stop
Have you noticed that you continue to attract narcissists?
Narcissists have many characteristics, including an inability to empathize, an exaggerated feeling of self-importance, and an obsessive and compulsive desire for praise.
These are not characteristics of a caring and supportive mate.
If you spent years dating one narcissist after another and finally have done what you thought was a great deal of healing and recovering from their emotional and psychological abuse, you’ve probably figured you’ve come to your senses — and you’re optimistic you’ll never make the same mistake again.
At first, things appear to be going well; you’re interacting with people and possibly even going on dates. But then, you meet and connect with someone who intrigues and stimulates you, and you decide to go for it.
Then, all of a sudden, the warning signs appear: You’ve seen this before. This is a feeling you’re familiar with. Even though this individual is nothing like your ex, there is yet something familiar about them. What’s going on?
