What To Do While You Wait For Love

Waiting for the love of your life to come and sweep you off your feet can be a daunting feeling, but don’t worry, this is common.

There are a lot of opportunities here for you to grow and gain clarity on who you are, be your own best friend, and when that love arrives, you will be ready.

You’ve looked all around, scouted all over, but ‘the one is nowhere to be found. You’ve tried everything from events to hikes to swiping left and right in the hopes of meeting ‘the one,’ but to no success. The people you’re looking at are either committed, emotionally unavailable, or uninterested. The people interested in you aren’t always your type, or the feeling is not mutual. You’re still scratching your brain over ‘the one’ in this humdrum romance cliche.

Consider this: what if you didn’t seek out ‘the one’ at all? What if you were the one? While you’re waiting, here’s something to keep you occupied.

1. Be THE ONE to yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror. Are you your own person? Do you have a strong need for attention? Do you believe you’re missing something? The answers to these questions will indicate whether or not you are ‘desperate to be with someone. You’re losing your own identity somewhere in this pursuit for the ‘one.’ You pretend to be someone you’re not if you want someone else to like you. Instead of…