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The Fear of Commitment: Understanding What Drives Your Reluctance to Take the Next Step

Commitment is an essential aspect of building deep, meaningful connections with others.

Jennifer McDougall
3 min readJun 16, 2023

Whether in romantic relationships, friendships, or professional endeavors, committing to a shared future can be exciting and daunting.

The Fear of Commitment: Understanding What Drives Your Reluctance to Take the Next Step
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For some, the fear of commitment may hold them back from fully embracing these connections, leaving them feeling stuck and uncertain.

Let’s delve into the underlying reasons for commitment phobia and offer practical advice for overcoming your reluctance to take that next step.

Unraveling the Roots of Commitment Phobia

Fear of commitment, also known as commitment phobia, can manifest in various ways. Some people may avoid long-term relationships, while others might struggle to commit to a job or pursue their dreams. To better understand and address this fear, let’s examine some common factors that contribute to commitment phobia:

1. Past Traumas and Negative Experiences

Our past experiences can significantly impact our present behavior. If you’ve faced betrayal, abandonment, or heartbreak in previous relationships, the…

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Jennifer McDougall
Jennifer McDougall

Written by Jennifer McDougall

Host of Life Refined podcast 🎙️ Personal Growth | Self-Improvement | Wellness 💡 Helping you level up your mindset & life. https://linktr.ee/jenmcdougall

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