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The Decade-Long Date: Why Some Men Date for 10 Years and Don’t Marry
It’s been a decade. You’ve shared secrets, dreams, laughs, tears, and countless “I love yous.”
Yet that little box with a ring is nowhere in sight. What does it mean when a man dates you for ten years and doesn’t marry you? Let’s delve into this conundrum, shall we?
A Fear of Commitment or Something More?
Some men are like open books; others are enigmas wrapped in mystery. One of the reasons why a man might date you for ten years without popping the question could be his fear of commitment.
Marriage is a significant step, and such a serious commitment can be daunting to some people. But is it just about commitment, or is something else at play? That is the question you must ask yourself, or better yet, him.
The Comfort Zone Dilemma
A relationship is a two-way street. It requires mutual effort, respect, and understanding. However, if he’s found comfort in the status quo, he may feel he’s getting everything he wants without committing. If he enjoys the benefits of a marital relationship without the legal and societal implications, he might not see the need to change anything. But remember, ladies…
