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10 Telltale Signs of a Female Narcissist in Friendships and How to Deal with Them
Welcome to the labyrinth of female narcissism in friendships!
If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve had your fair share of ‘frenemies,’ or maybe you’re just curious. Either way, strap in because we’re about to dissect the cunning world of female narcissists — from their sly tactics to how you can outsmart them at their own game.
1. The Compliment Sandwich with a Sting
Oh, the classic narcissist compliment! It starts sweet, then comes the jab. “I love your dress, but aren’t you a bit bold for wearing it?” These compliments are a narcissist’s subtle way of keeping you off balance. It’s like getting a hug that turns into a chokehold.
Dealing with it: Next time you get a backhanded compliment, try a simple “Thank you!” and change the subject. Don’t give them the satisfaction of seeing you flustered.
2. The Gaslighting Gala
Have you ever had a friend who made you question your reality? That’s the gaslighting you. “You’re too sensitive!” or “I never said that!” are their favorite hits. It’s like living in a psychological thriller, minus the popcorn and fun.
