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Navigating the Challenges of Long-Distance Relationships
It can be hard to be in a long-distance relationship. First, you are separated from your partner, so you will have to work a little harder to keep things going and maintain the connection. However, if you want your long-distance relationship to last, you must make an effort to succeed. Here are some ways to ensure that your long-distance romance thrives rather than just survives.
Make a plan about how frequently you will visit.
When you have a long-distance relationship, the goal is to make it feel as close and accurate as possible. The best way to do that is by making visits happen as often as possible. If your partner lives across the country or even just across town, you need to know how often you will be able to visit them and how long those visits will last.
Here are some factors that should guide your decision:
- How far away do they live (if they live in another country)
- How much time off work can you afford (if working)
- Your partner’s schedule (they might not always be available when you want to visit)