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My Money, My Rules: Why I Won’t Let a Man Control My Finances
In an era where gender equality has made significant strides, it’s perplexing that some antiquated notions still linger, particularly around finances in relationships.
As a woman firmly in control of her financial destiny, I am vocal about a principle I hold dear: I will never let a man control my finances. This stance isn’t about mistrust or defiance; it’s about maintaining my autonomy and ensuring my financial security.
The Bedrock of Financial Independence
Financial independence is non-negotiable. It’s more than just earning my own money; it’s about having the final say in how it’s spent, saved, and invested. Knowing that my financial well-being is not tied to someone else’s decisions or whims gives me peace.
This independence is not just a safety net; it’s a trampoline that propels me towards my personal and professional goals.
A Lesson from History
Historically, women’s financial dependence on men has often left them vulnerable and with limited options, especially in times of crisis like divorce or the death of a spouse. While times have changed, this history…
