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Identifying Narcissists: 35 Subtle Red Flags You Need to Know
We’ve all met someone who seems a little too into themselves.
When does self-confidence cross into narcissism territory?
Here’s a deeper dive into those 35 red flags:
1. They Fish for Compliments
These individuals constantly seek validation. It’s not just about feeling good; their self-esteem often depends on external validation. They may react negatively or appear discouraged if they don’t receive the expected praise.
2. Conversations Are Me-Centric
Talking to them feels like a one-way street. Regardless of the topic, every conversation somehow turns back to their life, achievements, or problems.
3. Empathy? What’s That?
They struggle to recognize or validate others’ feelings. It’s not that they don’t understand your emotions; it’s more like they don’t care unless it directly affects them.
4. Charmingly Superficial
Initially, they can be charismatic and engaging, but over time, you might notice a need for more depth or genuine interest in anything beyond the surface level.