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Identifying Narcissists: 35 Subtle Red Flags You Need to Know

We’ve all met someone who seems a little too into themselves.

Jennifer McDougall
4 min readDec 27, 2023
Identifying Narcissists: 35 Subtle Red Flags You Need to Know
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When does self-confidence cross into narcissism territory?

Here’s a deeper dive into those 35 red flags:

1. They Fish for Compliments

These individuals constantly seek validation. It’s not just about feeling good; their self-esteem often depends on external validation. They may react negatively or appear discouraged if they don’t receive the expected praise.

2. Conversations Are Me-Centric

Talking to them feels like a one-way street. Regardless of the topic, every conversation somehow turns back to their life, achievements, or problems.

3. Empathy? What’s That?

They struggle to recognize or validate others’ feelings. It’s not that they don’t understand your emotions; it’s more like they don’t care unless it directly affects them.

4. Charmingly Superficial

Initially, they can be charismatic and engaging, but over time, you might notice a need for more depth or genuine interest in anything beyond the surface level.

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Jennifer McDougall
Jennifer McDougall

Written by Jennifer McDougall

Host of Life Refined podcast 🎙️ Personal Growth | Self-Improvement | Wellness 💡 Helping you level up your mindset & life. https://linktr.ee/jenmcdougall

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