How to Rekindle an Old Flame and What to Consider

Jennifer McDougall
4 min readMar 27, 2022

How often have you heard someone say, “If I could redo my life, I never would have ended up with (or ) and be with them for so long”? Probably quite a few times. And if we’re being honest, this means that there are probably many people who wish they had another shot at pursuing/rekindling an old flame.

How to Rekindle an Old Flame and What to Consider
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In the dating world, relationships often come and go. Some end due to unfortunate circumstances, while others fade away as people lose interest and wander off. But just because one connection has been lost doesn’t mean all hope is lost. In this blog post, I’ll teach you what to do if you want your relationship with a former lover to be reignited and redone.

Is there someone from your past — a few months, years, or decades ago — that you would like to get back into your life? Perhaps it was just a fling, but you think about them often. Maybe you’re pondering how to get back with an old flame you haven’t seen in ages. Regardless of the details, I’m sharing my story and experience because this can be a tricky concept to address without specifics.

You have to take the first step, but where to begin? How do you strike up a conversation with an ex-lover? How do you get them to see you as more than just a friend for the first time in years? What do you say, and what can you do to show them that you are more mature now…

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Jennifer McDougall

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