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How to Have a Great First Date
Have you ever been on a bad first date? If you’re like most people, the answer is probably yes. But, the good news is that having a great first date is easier than you think.
In fact, I’d go as far as to say that it just takes being yourself and being open with your date; if they feel comfortable around you, they’ll be more likely to enjoy themselves. And even if things don’t work out — which can happen — you’ll always have those great memories of your first date!
Know your attractions.
To have a great first date, you must know your attractions. Knowing what you want and don’t want in a partner will give you good boundaries for the first date. Make sure you are clear about acceptable behavior on the first date and what is not. If any topics could make it uncomfortable for either of you, then it’s best to avoid discussing them until the second or third date.
Dress the part.
You will want to dress for the occasion. Dressing for a first date is no different than dressing for an interview, a job, or any other important event in your life. You want to look nice and presentable but not outshine your date; you want to be comfortable but also show respect for where you’re going; and most importantly, you don’t want your outfit distracting from the conversation.
