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How to Create the Relationship of Your Dreams
“A relationship is like a garden. To create a condition that will cause your plants to thrive and produce abundantly, you must weed, water, fertilize, and care for the plants in your garden. You must also know about the special needs of the plants you’re caring for. For example, some need more or less light than others, some need more or less water than others, and some need special fertilizers.” – The Laws of Love, Chris Prentiss
After a series of failed relationships and heartbreak, I searched everywhere for the one book that could help explain everything there was to know about creating the relationship I had always dreamed of. However, it was not until reading The Laws of Love that my relationships became healthier and more steady. Whether or not those relationships lasted, they were healthier. With the help of this book, I learned about the many aspects of a healthy relationship, different approaches to try under challenging situations, healing my wounds from the past, and when to walk away from a toxic relationship.
One thing you must know before we continue is this: “Attraction may be what draws us to another to create a relationship, but it is not what keeps us together. Attraction blooms at the beginning of a relationship because of physical Attraction or sexual Attraction or because a certain need is being fulfilled. Still, those…