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Are You Ready for a New Relationship?
Jumping into a new relationship can be incredibly exciting, but ensuring you’re ready first is essential. A successful relationship takes work — it’s not something that happens overnight. So, what should you know before taking the plunge? Here are a few things to consider.
Take Time to Reflect on Your Goals
Before committing to someone else, ensure you know your goals and if they align with your partner’s. For example, do you want marriage and kids down the line? Are you open to long-distance relationships or prefer something more local? Getting on the same page as soon as possible is essential, so there are no surprises further down the line. Knowing what you both want from the relationship will help ensure it gets off to a good start.
Understand Your Own Needs
It can be easy to get caught up in the excitement of meeting someone new and lose sight of our needs. But before getting into a new relationship, ask yourself if this person is meeting your needs: Do they understand and respect your boundaries? Do they support you emotionally when times are tough? Are they genuinely interested in getting to know who YOU are rather than trying to mold you into who THEY want you to be? Understanding your own needs is vital to finding a healthy relationship.
