6 Things To Do When You’ve Been Ghosted

Have you ever had someone stop talking, texting, calling, or Instagramming you out of nowhere? If yes, then you know how painful being ghosted truly is. For me, it all happened when suddenly he became busier than usual, spending more time watching basketball and spending time “working on himself.” The moment before everything changed, I was starring right into his eyes, dead quiet, and was thinking to myself how madly wild about this guy I was.

I adored him. I knew he was moving away, but at that moment, I wanted things to stay like that forever and be together for years later. That isn’t the case, nor shall I feel offended by it.

The truth is, I realize this guy wasn’t that into me. If he were, he wouldn’t have ghosted me. If he liked me, he would be trying to spend as much time with me as possible before he moves. Heck, maybe even consider not moving at all. LADIES, if a guy is into you, he will do whatever it takes to keep you in his life. He will call you. He will text you. If you ignore him, he will show up at your house with flowers. Men don’t play games. Little boys who don’t know how to communicate and show courtesy and respect play games properly.

If the guy you were dating suddenly went MIA, chances are it’s time for you to take a huge step back and look at what possibly went wrong and admitting to yourself that…