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5 Things to Avoid on the First Date

Embarking on a first date is akin to setting sail on uncharted waters.

Jennifer McDougall
7 min readDec 4, 2023

First dates are often filled with excitement, tinged with anticipation, and accompanied by nervousness. There may be no foolproof formula for the perfect first date, but a few common blunders can be avoided.

5 Things to Avoid on the First Date
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I wrote this article to help you explore the art of avoiding these pitfalls and offer valuable insights into what to avoid on a first date.

We’ll delve into crucial topics such as discussing ex-partners, avoiding sensitive subjects like past traumas, and refraining from inappropriate questions. My goal is to equip you with the knowledge and confidence to make a memorable first impression and lay the foundation for a meaningful connection.

A Smooth Start: Leaving Ex-Partners in the Past

The Ex-Factor: A Common First Date Misstep

On the journey to a successful first date, it’s imperative to remember that your focus should be entirely on the person sitting across from you, not on your past relationships. While your previous romantic encounters may have left a mark on your life, the first date is not the platform for unpacking the emotional baggage associated with them.

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Jennifer McDougall
Jennifer McDougall

Written by Jennifer McDougall

Host of Life Refined podcast 🎙️ Personal Growth | Self-Improvement | Wellness 💡 Helping you level up your mindset & life. https://linktr.ee/jenmcdougall

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