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5 Red Flags to Look Out For On The First Date
The first date is always a little awkward at first but it's critical to pay close attention to what is being said, their mannerisms, and ask them all the right questions. You are both going to be putting your best foot forward and probably came well equipped with a filter of what to say and how to act so that you can impress one another.
It’s best to be your most authentic self and be honest with whatever topic comes up, that you feel comfortable about discussing. The first date is not the best time to bring up past relationships, the details of your family or friend drama. It’s time to be observant.
Think of your first date with someone as a casual introductory meet-up to evaluate whether or not this is someone you’d like to invest more time and energy in. The first date is usually when you’ll either feel a spark with someone or not. It’s important not to put too much pressure on yourself and maybe think of it as meeting someone for a lovely meal and fun conversation. Try not to overthink anything and let your heart lead the way. Don’t forget to take your brain with you, though. With that in mind, here are 15 red flags to look out for a while you’re attempting to enjoy yourself on this awkward occasion.
- They spend more time talking about themselves rather than asking questions about you, your day, your life, and…